At the end of the year, I like to go through my previous writing and see what where things I worked on to be a better person, business owner, leader and support my networks over time. I found something to share from a few years ago that marked a drastic change in who I am today. It was part of a short exercise to reflect on where did you personal idea of business come from. The exercise comes from the belief that your business can only grow to the extent that you do as the small business owner and entrepreneur.
What have my life experiences taught me about 
what business is all about?
My original answer, included to show where I was and as a contrast to where I am today.
My life experiences tell me that business is all about systems and processes that mitigate risks for greater return than investment that gives more value to clients than cost paid.
I read that and thought, Ugh yuck. Did that really come from me? What a load of crap. That’s textbook talk! That’s skirt and suit talk! Sounds like something someone from Mckinsey would say, cold, logical and neatly pressed. It reeked of corporate big talk and objective reasoning. Things I apparently at one time thought were what business was all about. Not that those things are bad. I’m all for objective and logical reasoning but the question was on my life experiences. On the day to day who I am there’s no room for objective and logical life experience. There’s only the personal, my subjective view and skin in the game everyday life.
I wrote a new answer to that same question. But from the position I’m in today for my growth, self awareness, and life experiences, I am sure I am no longer the same person with the life experiences that had me write that old answer. That in itself has been a great reward for my annual planning and goals.
Revisited: What have my life experiences taught me about what business is all about?
I don’t know when I wrote that original response but today is a day I can speak on a deeper level, only because I feel I’m in a different place in my life. That’s the answer I wanted to buy for who I should be. It’s what I thought I had to be to be a young, successful business owner. But that’s not who I am; it’s not what my life experiences have been. What a breakdown between my life and what my business would be.
My life experiences tell me that business is about being so happy in going after my passion that I can’t help but listen to people. People come into my life because they resonate with what I stand for and what I’m passionate about. My life experiences tell me that I am connected to people and that I get off on making their lives better. Along the way, I’ll touch a lot of lives and the world is a better place for it. And, being totally honest, I do this happy dance thing when I reach some out of reach goal for my clients, friends or myself. It would be embarrassing if I didn’t feel so good. It’s my version of the touchdown dance.
Those are the life experiences that I can never escape behind a sexy black suit but embrace and take in as what business means as a reflection of who I am.
What a difference, huh? After I look at those two responses at different points in my life I can tell you the first one was around a time where I had failed business projects a sense of distance between my clients, partners and the work I did for them. The answer now, is one where I come to all clients from a place of being a genuine person who’s only working to help them because I believe in it, I love what I do and it’s making a difference for the better. If I had a choice I’d work with the me today versus the me from a few years ago.
What have your life experiences taught you about what business is about? Take a minute to leave your thoughts in the comments. Maybe you’ll see a difference from your old self, maybe you’ll see how your beliefs about your life relate to how your business is doing.
There was an amazing copywriter, who recently passed, Gary Halibert who asked if all things being equal and we were both in the restaurant business what one advantage would you want to help you succeed?
